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Originally Posted by silverfish
Having to eliminate someone from your life who you had previously cared for so much is one of the toughest things out there. If I had any advice on how to deal with something like that, I'd be giving it to myself first 
People say time heals all, but I'm not buying it. Regrets are terrible. Try to get rid of those and maybe then you can move on. |
It's hard to see the world as a different place without someone. It's instinctive to think toward that person's direction. Everything becomes a part of that person and the person becomes a part of everything I do. Whether it's poker or wealth or planning adventures or starting businesses, it always defaults back to thinking of all of these things with that person being a reason why I'm motivated. It's a tough job, breaking things up with people.
I'm not a believer in the time heals all idea either. Time heals all for some people because they bury it away. I don't bury. I like to understand things and wrap my mind around it until it becomes something I can readily comprehend and get over. This one is taking a toll on my energy and spirits though.
All the sadness and emo I project from time to time comes entirely from this. It's been an ongoing problem for 4 years and counting now.