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09-16-2008, 02:57 PM
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yah you got every right to be upset. You know how some girls are, like to gossip and tell each other everything. Bring out the back hand.
Well she stupidly told one of my best guy friends and the thing is he and her are not the best of friends either so I was kind of like...what the hell?

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09-16-2008, 02:59 PM
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next time you have a conversation with her, over coffee or a beer erh whatever, just grunt if she asks questions.

no more secret sharing, RG
They aren't necessarily secrets, more like things that were meant for her ears and no one elses, but truth be told I will no longer be as open or trusting with her.

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09-16-2008, 11:13 PM
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I'm a girl and I'm awesome at keeping secrets. My male and female friends all come to me, because they know I won't let it out.
Be my friend then, that's one of the things I value most.

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LOL

what do you expect from a woman? they're pretty much as bad as 80's business men.

and 80's business men will beat your skull with a pool cue for $10.
I love you

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09-16-2008, 11:26 PM
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Post #95, that'll teach her
Gotta ask, what is post 95?

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09-17-2008, 12:55 AM
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Tell her a ridiculous secret, something that may be plausible but is also at the same time just outrageous enough that people will think she's crazy.

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09-17-2008, 03:34 PM
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We could always just find the girl.

But a girl that's 100% trustworthy and not your girlfriend, is an extreme rarity and should be held dearly, because I think there's only like 5 of them left in the world. I think I heard that on the news or in a paper or some statistical pamphlet of some sort.
I am starting to find this out the hard way.

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09-17-2008, 04:35 PM
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You should tell her some sort of blatent lie, so that when she tells other people it makes her look like a fool

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09-17-2008, 04:49 PM
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I am starting to find this out the hard way.
Hard way? What do you people have no female friends or sisters

Almost every girl is like this. Heck, guys gossip a lot, too, nowadays. If you want something kept a secret, just tell a really close/best friend.

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09-17-2008, 07:41 PM
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If you really need to let something out, tell some random person on the internet so it'll never get back to your friends.

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09-17-2008, 07:47 PM
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Be mature, approach her with your concerns, and then be very hesitant to have a heart to heart with her again if at all. IMO, most people aren't very good with secrets. It's not really a gender issue.

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09-17-2008, 08:07 PM
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09-17-2008, 08:52 PM
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I've known plenty of guys that are just as bad. (but yeah, women are worse...)
Who keeps that many secrets, anyway? Hell, if you're that worried about "other" people knowing, you probably shouldn't have told anyone in the first place.

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09-17-2008, 09:10 PM
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Gotta ask, what is post 95?
http://hfboards.com/showthread.php?t=542687

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09-17-2008, 10:08 PM
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I'll just get to the point.

My friend, a female whom I consider a good friend betrayed my trust IMO.

She was sharing details of PRIVATE conversations with people and eventually it got back to me.

I trust(ed) her, in my opinion these were personal matters that shouldn't be anyone elses business, especially because she knows I don't trust people easily.

I don't think mad is the right word, more like disappointed? I talked to a few friends and they agreed with me, but just wanted to see what others think.

I just found this out, I'm going to talk to her about it but I don't want it to be overly awkward especially since there are mixed signals from time to time.
You've learned your lesson.

From here on in, keep whatever's bothering you bottled up inside and develop and extreme temper problem.

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09-17-2008, 10:11 PM
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Throat chop.

WHAMMO!

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I've known plenty of guys that are just as bad. (but yeah, women are worse...)
Who keeps that many secrets, anyway? Hell, if you're that worried about "other" people knowing, you probably shouldn't have told anyone in the first place.
OT: That is a sick avatar.

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09-17-2008, 10:22 PM
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09-17-2008, 10:23 PM
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Were you absolutely clear with her that this was stuff you wanted to keep between you and her? Sometimes even though it's obvious enough that we assume it's a private conversation, the other side remains oblivious to such facts. If not, have you had a chance to tell her since then that you don't want her telling others things that you tell her in your conversations with her? This is surprisingly effective. Sometimes, stupid as it may seem, people are just unaware.

However, I agree with the majority of posts thus far in that I would not tell something I didn't want getting out to one of my female friends. Hell, probably not even any of my male friends, save a couple.

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09-17-2008, 11:01 PM
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take it as a you live you learn scenario with this one particular friend.

but definitely bring it up, especially since it sounds like she's a habitual line-stepper.

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09-17-2008, 11:13 PM
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Umm, smack dat hoe?
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Slap that ***** motha ****a!
[Speaking]
Man what happen man?
Man I don't know this gurl still talkin' crazy to me man actin actin like she run me or sumthin'
What dog man you know what you need to do man
What?
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Yo Feel Me Aight
Aight Aight
Do dat dog walk over there and pimp slap her
That's what I'm talking about

[Chorus]
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[Verse 1]
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If you keep talkin crazy imma slap you in yo mouth,
This ***** ain't playin bout my cheddar or my cake, if you dp something wrong then my hand gon meet yo face
My hand comin fast bout a hundred miles per hour,
Gettin hit in yo face while you bathin in the shower
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[Chorus]
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Pimp Pimp Pimp slap dat hoe, WHOOPISH (Pimp slap her x6)
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[Verse 2]
Askin me for some money to go shoppin at Chinese store, reach back like a pimp knock dat trick to da floor
If you aint heard i'm dat ***** datz gon put you out yo misery
Pimp slappin is what I do, known in the city
Trick get back yappin yappin in my ear,
Like a man here come my hand now all the talkin disappear
Slap fist in my house, you talkin crazy so you gettin hit
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[Chorus]
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Pimp slap dat hoe, WHOOPISH (Pimp slap dat hoe man x3)
Pimp slap dat hoe, WHOOPISH
Pimp Pimp Pimp slap dat hoe, WHOOPISH (Pimp slap her x6)
Pimp slap dat hoe, WHOOPISH

[Hook] (x2)
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Give her what she need man right side her face man
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[Chorus]
Pimp slap dat hoe
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Pimp slap dat hoe, WHOOPISH

WHOOPISH
WHOOPISH
WHOOPISH
WHOOPISH
WHOOPISH!

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09-18-2008, 07:35 PM
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You have every right to be disappointed. I also dont trust very easily. I dont think I could be friends with someone like that anymore, but thats just me.

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09-18-2008, 07:46 PM
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Very justified.

If it`s very personal, i`d have a hard time forgiving that friend.
Once my trust is broken, it`s over. I`m cutting my ties with you.
You no longer exist in my life.

If you can find it in you to forgive her, confront her about it.
Just never tell her any secrets ever again.
Some people just can`t keep a secret.

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