When you send a person a PM saying that they have found a girlfriend/wife for you and to look at the obsequious thread to see what hes talking about. Then you open up the link and it is a girl who is obsessed with Pikachu and you know you have been shi* all over. Thats when you know you are a bad poster.
When you read a PM about a suggestion for a girlfriend in the banter thread you cant click the back button fast enough to go to the thread to find out who she is. Then your sad because its not true. THATS when your a bad poster.