No one should be a sad panda about their school and the babes. Cornell is where it is not at.
As for fraternities, I am in one and I can say that I drink a lot, while also succeeding at an Ivy League school that doesn't grade inflate. I also do comm service have never been hazed (my fraternity has no pledging/hazing process).
That's gross, why in god's name would you do that?
Because I was thirsty? Sorry I don't meet your sanitary standards. Anytime I try to drink from a can or bottle without touching the actual drink I spill it all over myself so sometimes I just drink it straight from there. It's not like I can get AIDS or something if I drink straight from it.