I know thats what everyone else says but I haven't felt this way about someone in forever. I've had a couple what the hell relationships that I never really cared about the person but she's just different I guess.
yep...you're #2. She'll act like you're #1.... but really all that other dude needs to do is give her a look and she's all about him.
Keep your emotions away, and I don't see why you can't have some fun. But she's still w/ him. There is a reason she said that. Women can often have very obvious meanings in their words. Sometimes they're being vague and passive... but there is an obvious message here.
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Originally Posted by hlaverty06
I know thats what everyone else says but I haven't felt this way about someone in forever. I've had a couple what the hell relationships that I never really cared about the person but she's just different I guess.
its easy to assume cause you feel so strongly that the chick does too. I'm sure she likes you. And you guys will have a good, at times borderline great time together. But she will not be your girlfriend... not this time around, at least. FACT.
yep...you're #2. She'll act like you're #1.... but really all that other dude needs to do is give her a look and she's all about him.
Keep your emotions away, and I don't see why you can't have some fun. But she's still w/ him. There is a reason she said that. Women can often have very obvious meanings in their words. Sometimes they're being vague and passive... but there is an obvious message here.
its easy to assume cause you feel so strongly that the chick does too. I'm sure she likes you. And you guys will have a good, at times borderline great time together. But she will not be your girlfriend... not this time around, at least. FACT.
it sucks. i'm sure she likes you, she just still likes the other dude better. I had a thing like that, about a year ago. The chick (i don't believe) was into another guy, she just wasn't into me 'that much.' She definitely liked me, just not enough. Fast forward 8 months later, i meet my current girl who is awesome and makes me happy. Don't waste your time if it ain't right.
it sucks. i'm sure she likes you, she just still likes the other dude better. I had a thing like that, about a year ago. The chick (i don't believe) was into another guy, she just wasn't into me 'that much.' She definitely liked me, just not enough. Fast forward 8 months later, i meet my current girl who is awesome and makes me happy. Don't waste your time if it ain't right.
i was in a similar situation this time last year. i had known the girl for a while and it was obvious we were both really into each other for most of that time, but for whatever reason we never actually acted on it. then she was in an abusive relationship and everyone kept telling her to breakup with the guy. she finally did and then we started going out about a month later, but it quickly became obvious she still had feelings for the guy and it just sucked. she definitely liked me but sex was really the only time it really felt like she was with me and that sucked. i was gonna just let her work through it but eventually it boiled over and we split pretty nastily. she ended up back with the asshat anyway and our friendship was wrecked.
So I was walking down a sidewalk in Newton on Easter morning and was wearing hiking boots because I had intended on going on a hike with a friend after I ran some errands.
I was walking at a fast pace, and the lace from my left boot got caught in the lace hook on my right boot.
After about 7 feet of an admittedly comedic walk resembling a penguin on marbles, I fell ass over elbows. Luckily my wrists broke the fall, preventing me from breaking my nose, but my knees have looked like raw hamburger meat since, and every slight movement causes incredible pain.
Do I sue the boot company? The town of Newton? The bystanders who laughed at me? Or my friend who wanted to go hiking?
So I was walking down a sidewalk in Newton on Easter morning and was wearing hiking boots because I had intended on going on a hike with a friend after I ran some errands.
I was walking at a fast pace, and the lace from my left boot got caught in the lace hook on my right boot.
After about 7 feet of an admittedly comedic walk resembling a penguin on marbles, I fell ass over elbows. Luckily my wrists broke the fall, preventing me from breaking my nose, but my knees have looked like raw hamburger meat since, and every slight movement causes incredible pain.
Do I sue the boot company? The town of Newton? The bystanders who laughed at me? Or my friend who wanted to go hiking?
bah, looking for who to sue for '**** happens' is SO american.
So I was walking down a sidewalk in Newton on Easter morning and was wearing hiking boots because I had intended on going on a hike with a friend after I ran some errands.
I was walking at a fast pace, and the lace from my left boot got caught in the lace hook on my right boot.
After about 7 feet of an admittedly comedic walk resembling a penguin on marbles, I fell ass over elbows. Luckily my wrists broke the fall, preventing me from breaking my nose, but my knees have looked like raw hamburger meat since, and every slight movement causes incredible pain.
Do I sue the boot company? The town of Newton? The bystanders who laughed at me? Or my friend who wanted to go hiking?
yep...you're #2. She'll act like you're #1.... but really all that other dude needs to do is give her a look and she's all about him.
Keep your emotions away, and I don't see why you can't have some fun. But she's still w/ him. There is a reason she said that. Women can often have very obvious meanings in their words. Sometimes they're being vague and passive... but there is an obvious message here.
its easy to assume cause you feel so strongly that the chick does too. I'm sure she likes you. And you guys will have a good, at times borderline great time together. But she will not be your girlfriend... not this time around, at least. FACT.
That's what I was immediately thinking. Why would she have said that if she didn't mean anything by it/didn't care about him anymore? OBviously she wouldn't have if the other guy wasn't a real thought to her. This can only be a bad thing.
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Wholey crap, just had to take wife n kids down to our basement. Some crazy hailstorm for five minutes. Sounded like a barrage of stones hitting the house. My whole front yard was covered. We get hailstorms here, but that was the worst I've seen. Thought the glass was gonna break.
And that is why you must have basements in the Midwest. Even if the tornado sirens were to go off, we wouldn't have heard them. **** was loud.