__________________ "With the amount of complaining about officiating, from fans of every team after basically every game, you would think people would eventually realize that the only thing consistent about officiating in the NHL is inconsistency." - ThirdManIn
So I got a write-up for having guests over (my friend who graduated and his girlfriend who goes to Stony Brook with us) after 2 at night...and we can't fight it because I didn't get permission from the one roommate all my other roommates and I despise.
Just an update for all my friends here who helped me out!
The other day I asked the girl at the 7-11 if she wanted to go out with me sometime. She gave me a big smile like she appreciated my asking, but told me she had a fiance. No surprise considering she has a baby that's about 5 or 6 months old. No big deal though, and moving on now. Went back in the next day not expecting to see her there, but she was nice with me again, and it didn't feel awkward at all.
Just an update for all my friends here who helped me out!
The other day I asked the girl at the 7-11 if she wanted to go out with me sometime. She gave me a big smile like she appreciated my asking, but told me she had a fiance. No surprise considering she has a baby that's about 5 or 6 months old. No big deal though, and moving on now. Went back in the next day not expecting to see her there, but she was nice with me again, and it didn't feel awkward at all.
You should have just asked her again and when she looks confused and tells you about her fiance, pretend you're confused as well and say "I'm sorry, have I asked you this before? I lose days of memory at a time sometimes". When she tells you that you've asked her before, pick up some flowers and pay for them and leave. From that point on, just wait until the day her marriage falls apart and then you drop by again and ask her out again and when she smiles again, tell her the same line about forgetting stuff and ask her how long since you asked her out last time and when she tells you it's been over a year or maybe even 2 since you last asked, that's when you cut in and say 'I guess I've always had it for you" and smile and walk out of there. A month later, she'll move away because she is no longer living with her ex-husband/fiance and that's when you track her down and show up at her door with a dozen of the flowers that you bought over 2 years ago when you asked her out that one time and tell her that you've lied. Ever since you asked her out the first time and she said no, you knew in your heart that it was meant to be so you created an elaborate lie to keep the connection alive and now you'd like to have the opportunity to share some memories with her, together. Buy her 2 or 3 year old child chocolate, cookies and a basket of toys and voila.
You should have just asked her again and when she looks confused and tells you about her fiance, pretend you're confused as well and say "I'm sorry, have I asked you this before? I lose days of memory at a time sometimes". When she tells you that you've asked her before, pick up some flowers and pay for them and leave. From that point on, just wait until the day her marriage falls apart and then you drop by again and ask her out again and when she smiles again, tell her the same line about forgetting stuff and ask her how long since you asked her out last time and when she tells you it's been over a year or maybe even 2 since you last asked, that's when you cut in and say 'I guess I've always had it for you" and smile and walk out of there. A month later, she'll move away because she is no longer living with her ex-husband/fiance and that's when you track her down and show up at her door with a dozen of the flowers that you bought over 2 years ago when you asked her out that one time and tell her that you've lied. Ever since you asked her out the first time and she said no, you knew in your heart that it was meant to be so you created an elaborate lie to keep the connection alive and now you'd like to have the opportunity to share some memories with her, together. Buy her 2 or 3 year old child chocolate, cookies and a basket of toys and voila.
Bada bing, bada boom.
Haha that's a good one, but honestly I actually have someone I feel the same exact way about already that is out of my life now. In fact the situation you just described might work in that case with the other girl! More on that tomorrow! John(TCRF) and myself seem to talk about that situation daily.
Has anyone seem Tony Bourdains trip into NJ? He visited a Caribbean food place that's real casual and you line up and pay and get your meal in a circular aluminum container thing. It looked delicious and I've been wanting to go and pick up enough food for 4 and just bring it back to my hotel room and order a bottle of wine and pig out