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01-08-2013, 10:11 PM
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Whatever happened to a boyfriend? The kind of guy who tries to win you over.

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I'd never have pegged you for a romantic, Slim.

A lot of people aren't willing to lavish attention on another individual due to their own narcissism. My sources tell me a large number of gay men fit this profile.

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Guys like that become pushy and annoying.

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01-22-2013, 10:47 PM
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But, what if he thinks I suck? Worse, what if he thinks I'm just okay, but there's just something a bit off?

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But, what if he thinks I suck? Worse, what if he thinks I'm just okay, but there's just something a bit off?
Googled this and didn't find any matching song lyrics, but it still looks fishy...


Isn't an affirmative response to the first question a good thing though?

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01-23-2013, 06:00 AM
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Read through this thread and I'm disappointed that there aren't any homosexual males looking for advice. I'm not gay but I am just curious as to what their drama is like. I bet they'd have the best stories.

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01-23-2013, 06:32 AM
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Read through this thread and I'm disappointed that there aren't any homosexual males looking for advice. I'm not gay but I am just curious as to what their drama is like. I bet they'd have the best stories.
See Slim Charles... although he's way too timid to ask explicitly. Instead he has to angstily conceal his questions with cryptic song lyrics.

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Read through this thread and I'm disappointed that there aren't any homosexual males looking for advice. I'm not gay but I am just curious as to what their drama is like. I bet they'd have the best stories.
TBH, living with 3 gay guys (my older brother, his bf and their roomate) alot of their drama is in the same vein as heterosexual drama. Or I'm just indifferent to either gender.

Case in point, our roommate and his bf "broke up" for a night because one of them had the Grinder app on their phone (like POF, but closest guy in your city thats DTF) and wouldnt delete it at the request of the other...so basically trust issues.

I will say however, the stories and conversations are pretty explicit. But at this point, I've been pretty much desensitized to whatever they say.

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TBH, living with 3 gay guys (my older brother, his bf and their roomate) alot of their drama is in the same vein as heterosexual drama. Or I'm just indifferent to either gender.

Case in point, our roommate and his bf "broke up" for a night because one of them had the Grinder app on their phone (like POF, but closest guy in your city thats DTF) and wouldnt delete it at the request of the other...so basically trust issues.

I will say however, the stories and conversations are pretty explicit. But at this point, I've been pretty much desensitized to whatever they say.
Lol nice. That's horrible for him to ever get that app though, I'd be pissed if I saw an app like that on my girlfriend's phone

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Is this thread also for men who like men?

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Is this thread also for men who like men?
Yes, absolutely. That was part of the founding doctrine of this thread: men who like men shall be included.

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I don't even know how to tell if he's into men too. Or if he's interested in me at all.

Sometimes it's blatantly obvious, but I have been wrong in the past. Either that or he was still in the closet.

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Yes, absolutely. That was part of the founding doctrine of this thread: men who like men shall be included.
Let's hope Novacane doesn't come in here, then.

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I don't even know how to tell if he's into men too. Or if he's interested in me at all.

Sometimes it's blatantly obvious, but I have been wrong in the past. Either that or he was still in the closet.
It helps the less you puzzle about it.

The best way is to come out yourself and talk to him about it if he himself is not obviously out. Try to skip the alcohol for once.

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