As far as the conversation in the last thread, never stay in the friend zone if you aren't already using her to get to another girl. If she isn't a connection to the next girl, drop her.
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"It has not been a good day. I lost my glasses early this morning and I had to go buy a pair of 79 dollar reading glasses today. 79 bucks. You can literally get them at Costco, three-for-20." - Darryl Sutter's response to going up 2-0 in the series.
so crosby's coming back tomorrow against the islanders. discuss.
i for one am pretty glad, i think it sucks that he's been out so long. hoping he can return to form.
kinda crazy (stupid?) that they've been trying to find a safe date for him to return, and it ends up being against the islanders.
We haven't had a girl problem on here for a while, my turn!
So, as any story starts it belongs with a girl, a town and a little bit of luck. I will make the story short, however. Met a girl, crazy intelligent. Not a 'thankkkkkkks' texter, but a genuine intelligence that matches mine. She's also in the medicine program and our tests always seem to be in a 2% ~ score. We got along amazingly well, and started to date for a short period of time.
I threw out some of the rulebook with her, gave her a note that said 'I think you're very beautiful', talked very open and genuinely ect. After about 2 weeks she needed to talk, and basically explained how she can't do it. I understand that, but now after 3 days is almost a pseudo-relationship. Because she's the one that basically cancelled it, she's rebooted fine and I'm stuck quazi liking the girl.
I'm thinking I'm stuck in the dreaded 'friend-zone'. So here's my current options I've thought on my own:
a.) Cut her out, it's not worth feeling stupid around the girl (in the non-ling way stupid, but 'why did I bother') and there's so many other girls out there who appreciate my time and energy. It would also help the girl out in the future to appreciate guys who have great value. The downside of this is that it somewhat proves I'm a half ****** and confirms any doubts she had about me.
b.) Stay in the friendzone? It does indeed suck as there's nothing beyond the 'hey, you're a nice guy' mantra. Yet, is it worth riding out for an extended period of time dealing with this girl. If it does work out, that's awesome. She's an incredible personality and I think somewhere in there she does care for me.
So, any thoughts? Any options I am not currently looking at? This is actually the first time something like this has happened to little me, and I'm half excited that I can post some 'HEY HALP ME!' advice on the off-topic area.
Thanks guys, you rock.
From the last thread: Id definitely cut her out, not completely, but enough to where shes wondering what youre doing and who youre with. Ive gone through this soo much lately, because im always the nice guy, but you need it to seem like she likes you more than you like her, even if its the other way around, dont show that cuz then shell know shes got you, They always want you when they cant have you, so make it seem that way, if you do eventually want to win this chick over...... good luck!
From the last thread: Id definitely cut her out, not completely, but enough to where shes wondering what youre doing and who youre with. Ive gone through this soo much lately, because im always the nice guy, but you need it to seem like she likes you more than you like her, even if its the other way around, dont show that cuz then shell know shes got you, They always want you when they cant have you, so make it seem that way, if you do eventually want to win this chick over...... good luck!
Just cause I think the Black Keys need some love, and they kinda go with the situation....
I have officially joined the "Bitten by a Brown Recluse" club.
Wow, that was a unpleasant club to join.
Was bitten a week ago last friday. Saw the little f-er do it and promptly killed him. I did not know what he was at the time but after a week of fevers, swollen lymphnodes from my forearm to my chin, and a bite that turned black and bled non stop, I went to the ER today. Confirmed. Brown Recluse.
He nailed me on my right hand, ring finger. Id post a pic but it would most definately get me scolded.
As far as the conversation in the last thread, never stay in the friend zone if you aren't already using her to get to another girl. If she isn't a connection to the next girl, drop her.
yeah - information I could have used 25 years ago.
Whoever thought that using that infernal Rebecca Black song for their Black Friday sales should never be allowed to work again...let alone have kids...
If you don't see me until the second period for every game until now and Christmas Eve...I got the late shift for the kettles again... I know that I'll miss four games outright...but I'll drive people nuts asking what the score is...like I did for two games last year...
Took my roo roos to the vet today. He either has a heart problem or a hairball that is having trouble coming out. I should find out in the next couple weeks.
Took my roo roos to the vet today. He either has a heart problem or a hairball that is having trouble coming out. I should find out in the next couple weeks.
Hopefully it is nothing. Heart problems are the worst, let it be anything but that.
I notice it says browser = safari.. perhaps replace safari with the name of your browser? I saved it as a webpage but I haven't been able to upload it for some reason.. anyways I copy pasted.. A little wordy, just trying to answer your question.
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Sergei Gonchar 89561
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