so two close friends of mine that i've known since elementary school (the latter of which is probably my best friend if I had to rank people) both just got engaged in the last month, with the latter being today. I don't know this feel. Don't get me wrong, I'm extremely happy for both, and look forward to having a hell of a time at their weddings (whenever those may be). But now this leaves me wondering where the hell I am with my life. Feels weird man.
so two close friends of mine that i've known since elementary school (the latter of which is probably my best friend if I had to rank people) both just got engaged in the last month, with the latter being today. I don't know this feel. Don't get me wrong, I'm extremely happy for both, and look forward to having a hell of a time at their weddings (whenever those may be). But now this leaves me wondering where the hell I am with my life. Feels weird man.
Eh, I'm not looking that far forward myself. Last TaN I mentioned I'm talking to a girl who called my internship "ewwwy". Not exactly wife potential... not like I feel like I'm ready for it anyway.
Eh, I'm not looking that far forward myself. Last TaN I mentioned I'm talking to a girl who called my internship "ewwwy". Not exactly wife potential... not like I feel like I'm ready for it anyway.
Oh yeah I don't feel I'm ready for it either. And I have a year or two on you. The thing that throws me off is that in reality I have no clue where I'm at/headed. Career-wise, relationship-wise, or even moving out of home-wise. And few to no prospects in regards to all 3. That's why I'm left just kind of confused in general right now.
Oh yeah I don't feel I'm ready for it either. And I have a year or two on you. The thing that throws me off is that in reality I have no clue where I'm at/headed. Career-wise, relationship-wise, or even moving out of home-wise. And few to no prospects in regards to all 3. That's why I'm left just kind of confused in general right now.
I'm at that point at 35. In fact my buddy admitted that he, and his buddy were having ''What do you think? Is he gay?'' conversations about me. Despite his buddy not being married either, but he does have a kid. That buddy of mine is 40, and engaged now so he's the last guy I've known for years to be not married or not engaged.
It's to the point where if I wanna hang out, and have friends over they gotta bring their kids cause their wives work night shift or something, and a lot of social activities involve Busch Gardens with the kids.
Oh yeah I don't feel I'm ready for it either. And I have a year or two on you. The thing that throws me off is that in reality I have no clue where I'm at/headed. Career-wise, relationship-wise, or even moving out of home-wise. And few to no prospects in regards to all 3. That's why I'm left just kind of confused in general right now.
i feel like it's acceptable to have no clue up until about 25 or so, so you've got time.
besides you have no clue what could happen in like 3 months that throws everything else out the window. the future is just impossible to predict.
Wednesday when I went to visit an ex in a rehab facility in Baltimore we had to leave straight from there to the game. My buddy, and I had on Devils jerseys. He had a Broduer I had an Elias. The woman at the desk thought we were there to visit, and sign autographs! They thought we were the players, but honestly I don't think she had any clue what sport the Devils even played. She probably thought they were a Football team for all she knew. It was pretty funny. I wonder if we could fool them with Ovechkin, and Semin jerseys?
Anyway she got into an accident, and is pretty messed up. She will be alright. I didn't get the reception I was hoping for, and now feel like a waste for giving my buddy $100 bucks for driving me there. Not the highlight of my vacation back here that's for sure.
So I'm ****ed? I need the career thing first and foremost. Been with a girl for 4 1/2 years now though, so I think I have that part down.
Don't worry about that. I worked in carpenters union[United Brotherhood Of Carpenters] from the time I was 18 up until a year ago. That's almost half my life. When I moved to Florida the work situation was so bad, and there is no construction going on, and there pretty much isn't any back home in Jersey either anymore. I got out for both political reasons, and because I didn't wanna sit around, and pay dues every month when I may not work again for 4 years. Got a job at the hotel on the beach I used to stay in when I would vacation before I moved to Florida, and it's a lot better.
It's maintenance so it's not like going from carpentry to working in an office, but it's still good. Making half of what I used to, but that's okay, because the cost of living is half of what it is living in Jersey.
Wednesday when I went to visit an ex in a rehab facility in Baltimore we had to leave straight from there to the game. My buddy, and I had on Devils jerseys. He had a Broduer I had an Elias. The woman at the desk thought we were there to visit, and sign autographs! They thought we were the players, but honestly I don't think she had any clue what sport the Devils even played. She probably thought they were a Football team for all she knew. It was pretty funny. I wonder if we could fool them with Ovechkin, and Semin jerseys?
Anyway she got into an accident, and is pretty messed up. She will be alright. I didn't get the reception I was hoping for, and now feel like a waste for giving my buddy $100 bucks for driving me there. Not the highlight of my vacation back here that's for sure.
A friend and I were confused for Jamie Langenbrunner and John Madden on the NJIT campus one night after a game. Some little kid asked for our autographs.
A friend and I were confused for Jamie Langenbrunner and John Madden on the NJIT campus one night after a game. Some little kid asked for our autographs.
Haha! My buddy looks nothing like Marty. He's got black hair, and is a bit stockier than him. I can't stay I look anymore like Patti than he does Marty. I'm a bit thicker than him myself.
Like I said this woman probably saw the jerseys, and when two guys come in wearing the same teams jersey she probably thought we were there for some charity there. Of course it sounds cool getting confused for Marty, and Patti, but this woman probably thought we were fricken Football players. Probably had no clue the Devils were a Hockey team. Baltimore has no Hockey team though. I figure they follow the Caps cause they're only about 50 miles south.
