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02-02-2012, 01:10 AM
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And DH get your own girls, stop trying to piggy back on everyone else.
My mojo is down, bro. I was someone's second choice. My ego can't handle a hit like that.

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My mojo is down, bro. I was someone's second choice. My ego can't handle a hit like that.


Sorry to hear, didn't know. maybe less ego will be good for you.

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My mojo is down, bro. I was someone's second choice. My ego can't handle a hit like that.
Just do what I've decided to do. Work out, it's my last year of school so I'm getting as many numbers as possible. Not giving up until something pans out. Don't want to be the guy who never found anything in College.

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02-02-2012, 01:17 AM
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My mojo is down, bro. I was someone's second choice. My ego can't handle a hit like that.
Don't you go to UCB? That's like a golden ticket against girls in CC's.


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Just do what I've decided to do. Work out, it's my last year of school so I'm getting as many numbers as possible. Not giving up until something pans out. Don't want to be the guy who never found anything in College.
Good luck brah. We believe in you and all that bro jazz.

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02-02-2012, 01:18 AM
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Sorry to hear, didn't know. maybe less ego will be good for you.
No. Have you seen my avi?

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Just do what I've decided to do. Work out, it's my last year of school so I'm getting as many numbers as possible. Not giving up until something pans out. Don't want to be the guy who never found anything in College.
Not about getting numbers/laid. I'm just tryina finally find a chill girl just to check if I have empathy or not. Consistency could be good.

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02-02-2012, 01:19 AM
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No.
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02-02-2012, 01:21 AM
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Not about getting numbers/laid. I'm just tryina finally find a chill girl just to check if I have empathy or not. Consistency could be good.
I used to be picky about who I approached, then I realized that I would never know if they are chill or not unless I got to know them so I might as well meet as many people as possible.

I think once you get over being rejected things are a lot easier. Like, ya feels bad to get rejected but you realize that you likely won't see them again, and if you do nothing bad happens.

That's not to say I am anywhere near being close to a social butterfly but I am able to start conversations etc if I'm in the right setting. Still not able to talk to random strangers at coffee shops though.

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02-02-2012, 01:24 AM
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I think once you get over being rejected things are a lot easier. Like, ya feels bad to get rejected but you realize that you likely won't see them again, and if you do nothing bad happens.
I see her like twice a week or so. I'm over her as a girl (and already "moved on" if you know what I mean), just not over the insult. Ego and all.

But yeah, I definitely agree with your first point. I just have to act on it.

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Still not able to talk to random strangers at coffee shops though.
That's always hard unless you get a sign of interest.

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02-02-2012, 01:26 AM
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Still not able to talk to random strangers at coffee shops though.
That's easy usually. It's getting past the "oh guy I had a conversation with" part for me.

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02-02-2012, 01:39 AM
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That's easy usually. It's getting past the "oh guy I had a conversation with" part for me.
What, you mean after you have gotten their number? If you can break the ice it should be pretty smooth sailing from there. Approach them, talk about interests, obtain number. Then when you call them ask if they want to do one of their interests.

Say for instance I'm talking to a girl who mentions she really like Pho, I can then call her and be like "Hey, we met earlier at x. blah blah blah, there's this Pho place in town that I haven't tried, have you?" *wait for answer* "Nice, I'll be sure to check it out, would you like to come with me when I try it out?"

I've found stuff like this works, it's just my openers to strangers is definitely my weakest point, if I can get their number I am able to get the ball rolling and it's pretty much up to them as to whether or not they bite.

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02-02-2012, 01:46 AM
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What, you mean after you have gotten their number? If you can break the ice it should be pretty smooth sailing from there. Approach them, talk about interests, obtain number. Then when you call them ask if they want to do one of their interests.

Say for instance I'm talking to a girl who mentions she really like Pho, I can then call her and be like "Hey, we met earlier at x. blah blah blah, there's this Pho place in town that I haven't tried, have you?" *wait for answer* "Nice, I'll be sure to check it out, would you like to come with me when I try it out?"

I've found stuff like this works, it's just my openers to strangers is definitely my weakest point, if I can get their number I am able to get the ball rolling and it's pretty much up to them as to whether or not they bite.
Man I dunno I'm like the total opposite. Once it goes from face to face to phones it's like all downhill. No clue why it's like that though. Though I usually consider getting numbers to be a huge achievement considering I look like a cross between Chewbacca, Gumby and the stop motion rendition of Frosty the Snowman.

Talking to strangers though is pretty easy for me. Probably because when I was younger my parents sent me all over the place so I was in planes alot by myself and would talk to the people around me? Or something like that.

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02-02-2012, 01:47 AM
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"Nice, I'll be sure to check it out, would you like to come with me when I try it out?"
There HAS to be a better way to phrase that. It's like asking "would you like to watch me while I eat Pho?"

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I look like a cross between Chewbacca, Gumby and the stop motion rendition of Frosty the Snowman.
You're one hot piece of ass, bro.

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02-02-2012, 01:49 AM
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Yep KM nailed it though.

FINE EDIT IT OUT BRO

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02-02-2012, 01:50 AM
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Yep KM nailed it.
Dammit. I thought I didn't and edited it out.

I'll re-phrase: he is not good at showing he's interested/getting their numbers, so those conversations don't go anywhere.

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02-02-2012, 01:51 AM
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Hahahahahahaha it's all gooooood.

Here's an example of a conversation

*shes looking at like uh some maps of mid ocean ridges which is all color coded and funky* (yeah the coffee shops are weird here)
me: "whoa is that a still from a david bowie music video? didn't know he was still running around making them"
she laughs and tells me no they're some mid ocean ridge maps. Conversation goes on until she's gotta go and boom. That's usually it.

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No, I think he means he has trouble letting them know he's interested/getting their number, and just becomes some random dude they had a conversation with.
Ah... Well if you've met them and share some common interests I don't think it's that out of the ordinary to ask for a number, you know? Now if when you were talking nothing came up that you two had in common getting a number might be a little harder but it seems like these days people will give their number out to anyone if they ask. (like me)

"It was nice meeting you, I have to be at x in 10 minutes! Do you think I could get your number?" should work.

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Yeah, I always use the "I gotta go" excuse and tell her you'd like to see her again.

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It's mostly the interested part. I'm guessing it's probably best to straight up be like "yo i hella dig you. we should try going out" as opposed to all that implied subtle hint nonsense.

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Be like this:

I'm gonna do it next time I'm at the movies.

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It's mostly the interested part. I'm guessing it's probably best to straight up be like "yo i hella dig you. we should try going out" as opposed to all that implied subtle hint nonsense.
Na, don't say it until you actually know they are going to reply to your phone call. Helps weed out some girls, the ones who won't be replying to you or will decline your invite. After you invite them I'd say that you had a great time with them etc and would like to do it again.

I've had two different things happen at that point: everything works out, or they say "yeah, that would be awesome" then you never hear from them again. At which point you kind of feel like:

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That's why you need to get them on the boat:


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Hey Hye, Brodie was at Haas today?


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Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat the ****????? Why was I not informed about this??? This is like room 320 at Cheit. Nooooooooooooooo

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Hey Hye, Brodie was at Haas today?

Along with Mr Randy Hahn. (What, you aren't keeping up on twitter? )

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