The Lounge"...Where the parking lot of the Igloo meets the concourse of the Nassau County Coliseum and the bathroom line of the Skyreach..." - Wickedbsfan
That one girl you can never take your mind off of...
Two options:
1) Find another girl.
2) Find other things to do. If you keep yourself busy, you're not going to pine. It's when you're stuck at home for 12 hours with nothing to do but eat and watch TV that memories creep up.
1) Find another girl.
2) Find other things to do. If you keep yourself busy, you're not going to pine. It's when you're stuck at home for 12 hours with nothing to do but eat and watch TV that memories creep up.
I'm actually trying to get with this girl, not forget her
Alright there's this very pretty girl in my Stats class that I've been thinking of making a move on for a while. I saw her on the big screen at the Oiler game on Saturday so I'm gonna use that as an icebreaker. We'll see how it goes. Maybe I can take her to a game if it works out?
That's from Lady Advice 22. Soo just an update on this. I never ended up using that icebreaker because I got sick for a while but I got a chance to talk to her today anyway. So basically for the past maybe week I felt that she's been noticing me. Like I'll be playing pool in the student lounge and then see her eyeing me and stuff like that or I'll just casually glance around and my eyes will meet hers. I discounted it because I thought maybe I was crazy or something or whatever.
Anyway so tonight at a party for our University Faculty (it's very small). So yeah everyone's wasted blah blah blah. Near the end I end up with her and her bf outside. We basically start chatting and her bf tells me "oh yeah she's told me about you, you have a class together" I played it off as if I didn't know and then asked "oh what class?" she says "you're in my Stats class!". We had never talked before or anything but clearly it seems she HAS been eyeing me. Enough to tell her bf too. While I was chatting with him too she was eyeing me and smiling the whole time too (oh and I DID end up mentioning that game I saw them at). They needed a ride to her place so my friend and I give them one and I just kinda flirted with her. Then when we get there she smiles at me and says "good night!". Her friend ended up telling me that they've been together for 4 years now. I have a bit of a project on my hands. So HF what do I do? Is she into me? Am I crazy? Am I an ******* if I want to split them up for my personal gain? I seek your advice. Guide me.
tl;dr- Chatted with girl who's in a relationship who seems to be eyeing me. She told her BF of 4 years about me too. Flirted. Not sure if she wants me or if she's just flirty or trying to toy with me or something. Need advice.
Last edited by EchoesoftheEighties: 03-25-2012 at 04:31 AM.
That's from Lady Advice 22. Soo just an update on this. I never ended up using that icebreaker because I got sick for a while but I got a chance to talk to her today anyway. So basically for the past maybe week I felt that she's been noticing me. Like I'll be playing pool in the student lounge and then see her eyeing me and stuff like that or I'll just casually glance around and my eyes will meet hers. I discounted it because I thought maybe I was crazy or something or whatever.
Anyway so tonight at a party for our University Faculty (it's very small). So yeah everyone's wasted blah blah blah. Near the end I end up with her and her bf outside. We basically start chatting and her bf tells me "oh yeah she's told me about you, you have a class together" I played it off as if I didn't know and then asked "oh what class?" she says "you're in my Stats class!". We had never talked before or anything but clearly it seems she HAS been eyeing me. Enough to tell her bf too. While I was chatting with him too she was eyeing me and smiling the whole time too (oh and I DID end up mentioning that game I saw them at). They needed a ride to her place so my friend and I give them one and I just kinda flirted with her. Then when we get there she smiles at me and says "good night!". Her friend ended up telling me that they've been together for 4 years now. I have a bit of a project on my hands. So HF what do I do? Is she into me? Am I crazy? Am I an ******* if I want to split them up for my personal gain? I seek your advice. Guide me.
tl;dr- Chatted with girl who's in a relationship who seems to be eyeing me. She told her BF of 4 years about me too. Flirted. Not sure if she wants me or if she's just flirty or trying to toy with me or something. Need advice.
Interesting. I think this could be one of those scenarios where the girl is in a long relationship and wants to assure herself that she can still get the attention of guys who are not her boyfriend. If you watch How I Met Your Mother, there's an episode where Lily wants to prove to herself that she is still hot enough to attract guys, and thinks the reason she never gets hit on at the bar is because she wears her ring, so she takes it off but still no guys come over to her and she gets upset
Or another possibility could be they want a threesome and she has spotted you or like someone in a previous thread who the boyfriend actually encouraged to **** his girl that might explain why the boyfriend is talking to you.
Crazy theories I know, those were just the first things that came into my head
Interesting. I think this could be one of those scenarios where the girl is in a long relationship and wants to assure herself that she can still get the attention of guys who are not her boyfriend. If you watch How I Met Your Mother, there's an episode where Lily wants to prove to herself that she is still hot enough to attract guys, and thinks the reason she never gets hit on at the bar is because she wears her ring, so she takes it off but still no guys come over to her and she gets upset
Or another possibility could be they want a threesome and she has spotted you or like someone in a previous thread who the boyfriend actually encouraged to **** his girl that might explain why the boyfriend is talking to you.
Crazy theories I know, those were just the first things that came into my head
Definitely crazy ahah interesting and out of the box though. For the first bolded, she definitely can and has. Arguably the hottest girl in our faculty and pretty much every guy WOULD hit on her but she's taken so no one does. Second bolded, I dunno if I'd be down ahaha. Of note though is the boyfriend DOES NOT go to our school. He's just basically some random dude she's been with for a long time.
Girl I'm seeing is sort of into hockey. She'll follow it a bit and ask me about it, but I assume it's more to make conversation with me. When we're together and there's a game on, rarely do we watch it. And the times it has been on, we've been doing other things... making supper or working on a project she's got going on now, etc.
So a few of my classmates and I made online dating accounts to see what it's like. I'm a single guy so I'm taking it somewhat seriously, but I'm not holding my breathe.
Anyways... Talk about stuck up *******. My god there is a reason some of these people are single.
The 2 things I hate are girls who weigh more then me, and girls who are taller than me. Unfortunately this seems to be the majority of people seriously looking for relationship online.. Very unfortunate for me =(
That one girl you can never take your mind off of...
Yea, know how that feels bro.. Oh wait, she's my gf.
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Originally Posted by Hedberg1
I'm actually trying to get with this girl, not forget her
Don't leave us in the dark man. Is she interested, single, etc..?
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tl;dr- Chatted with girl who's in a relationship who seems to be eyeing me. She told her BF of 4 years about me too. Flirted. Not sure if she wants me or if she's just flirty or trying to toy with me or something. Need advice.
Could be that she's having some problems with her bf, and trying to get him jealous and realise how important she is to him by flirting with you.
On second thought, how drunk was she? My ex whom with I'm still good friends is totally normal around me when sober, but when she's drunk she'll try to seduce me and acts if we were still together (she left me over a year ago without any sort of explanation), which has led to me leaving immediately if I bump into her in a bar or party. Especially now, since I've been together with her old former BFF (thou, I haven't seen her drunk at all after that happened) for a few months now. I know what you all think, that I'm trying to get back at her or something, but it's nothing like that. She actually asked me out and not the other way round (I was about to do it anyway, but she beat me to it). Guess I fell for the wrong girl at first (I've known both of them for over 7 years, 4 of those I was with my ex), but you have to do mistakes in life before the right decicions, right?
I think I've given up on women altogether. I'm just going to stop trying until somebody gives me the kick in the ass I need or until somebody decides to chase me.
I think I've given up on women altogether. I'm just going to stop trying until somebody gives me the kick in the ass I need or until somebody decides to chase me.
I was like this for a while.
Than I realised good women don't chase men. You have to go out and look for them.
I know this can't be true because there are no females in Waterloo.
So I wasn't the only one who thought this when reading Alex's post
Also, the guy who I was in a explicit non-relationship with isn't replying to my texts anymore. A few weeks back he started freaking out because he thought I wanted a relationship and we had agreed that neither of us wanted to get into that. The other night he walked into a bar where I was making out with another guy when we were about to head out. He texts me the next day asking if I had a good time and who the guy was, I basically just said "a guy I met, what do you care?" He replies saying he thought he did something stupid or I was mad at him, or something..? I asked him if he was mad at me, he said something like "I'm not mad, I'm puzzled" and stopped replying after I told him I didn't see why. (he regularly jokes about my "other boyfriends", told me he'd be fine with me dating his friends/seeing other guys and that it's none of his business, etc.) **** off, you can't have it both ways.
Pretty hammered. I'm thinking it might've just been the liquor. Either way at least she's noticed me and talked about me right?
The fact that she mentioned you to her bf when you two hadn't talked and aren't friends is weird. It'd be one thing if you were friends, but you're not sooo...
See if you can find out why she's mentioned you. and get her number.
Interesting. I think this could be one of those scenarios where the girl is in a long relationship and wants to assure herself that she can still get the attention of guys who are not her boyfriend. If you watch How I Met Your Mother, there's an episode where Lily wants to prove to herself that she is still hot enough to attract guys, and thinks the reason she never gets hit on at the bar is because she wears her ring, so she takes it off but still no guys come over to her and she gets upset
Or another possibility could be they want a threesome and she has spotted you or like someone in a previous thread who the boyfriend actually encouraged to **** his girl that might explain why the boyfriend is talking to you.
Crazy theories I know, those were just the first things that came into my head
Don't bother with her bro. If she really liked you she'd be sending you more signs than that, and you don't want to get near that right now. She's in a 4 year relationship with a guy that's obviously confident enough about her and himself that he can talk to you with zero intimidation.
*Immediately hate best friend for getting your hopes up*
The worst is when it's a TSN text alert letting me know a player from some western conference team I couldn't care less about has been suspended two games.
