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01-03-2013, 11:54 AM
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Sperm donor ordered to pay child support

Well this doesn't seem right:

http://ca.shine.yahoo.com/blogs/shin...204546383.html

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This will probably get moved to the political forum but the whole child support system is broken.

As is the damn alimony system.

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I saw a documentary once where this guy donated sperm to a lesbian couple and then when the kids turned 18 they contacted him then he started having an affair with the one mom.

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I saw a documentary once where this guy donated sperm to a lesbian couple and then when the kids turned 18 they contacted him then he started having an affair with the one mom.
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Though Bauer and Schreiner split in 2010, they continue to co-parent their daughter and their seven adopted children.
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Well, sperm donation is going to plummet if that isn't overturned....

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Considering the couple doesn't want the money, what's to stop the guy from writing a check every month, and the couple promptly ripping it up?

I get that this doesn't solve the problem without addressing the underlying issue, but wouldn't that be an option in this case?

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I saw a documentary once where this guy donated sperm to a lesbian couple and then when the kids turned 18 they contacted him then he started having an affair with the one mom.
just one of them?

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Considering the couple doesn't want the money, what's to stop the guy from writing a check every month, and the couple promptly ripping it up?

I get that this doesn't solve the problem without addressing the underlying issue, but wouldn't that be an option in this case?
Cuz unfortunately, that's not how it works. If he's ordered to pay child support that means a judge will look at his income, decide how much of it he should use to support "his child" then he has to pay child support services every month or some other government entity which will then pay that money to the mother. Any checks or money that is not paid to this third party government is NOT COUNTED AS PAID CHILD SUPPORT. Even if he has proof of payment to the childs mother, it doesnt matter, it HAS to go through the proper channels. Basically, if the state orders him to pay he HAS to pay. no way around it. If he refuses, they'll just garnish his wages and if he continues to not pay and falls behind, the state can take legal action against him.

Basically, if this continues in this way for him....hes ****ed.


Thinking about it a little more...If hes forced to pay, the only way around it is for him to pay child support services, which will in turn pay the babies mama, then she could promptly send the money back to him. Thats IF...shes cool and really doesn't want him to pay and doesnt want his support. I dont know anyone that would turn down free money though so...

If i were him i would demand if he has to pay child support that he get some type of child visitation. That would make the babies mama poop her pants a little bit...maybe enough to go along with the little loophole described above.

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Weird, I just read this article before coming on here. This is why you should never help people.

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Can't they just give him his money back after he pays then? Seems like a hassle but if they are on his side at least that could happen.

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So, basically, because they didn't register the man as a sperm donor, the state sees him as the father, and therefore he, rather than the state, should pay health insurance?

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So, basically, because they didn't register the man as a sperm donor, the state sees him as the father, and therefore he, rather than the state, should pay health insurance?
The state wants reimbursement for health bills basically and they want him to pay child support from now on. This is all because they didnt do it the way the state says and requires it to be done.

Its really they're own fault for not doing the research and finding out the proper way of handling this.

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I've always thought there should be a special kind of credit card that the child support money is put onto and it can only be spent in that way so 100% of the money is tracked and you don't have dad's buying cars and mom's buying plastic boobs.

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Could this same scenario happen with a woman who donated her eggs?

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Could this same scenario happen with a woman who donated her eggs?
Probably not because the only way for a woman to donate her eggs is through a surgical procedure. I assume said procedure would have to go through all the proper channels before its approved by the hospital.

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Probably not because the only way for a woman to donate her eggs is through a surgical procedure. I assume said procedure would have to go through all the proper channels before its approved by the hospital.
Hmm, interesting.

Also, nice name, I just started to run through all the 3rd Rock episodes

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I've always thought there should be a special kind of credit card that the child support money is put onto and it can only be spent in that way so 100% of the money is tracked and you don't have dad's buying cars and mom's buying plastic boobs.
The state child services dept. has enough to worry about, they dont want to tell ppl how to spend their money. All that matters to them is that the money is going to the primary custodial parent which is why it is a requirement they be paid and transfer the money.

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Hmm, interesting.

Also, nice name, I just started to run through all the 3rd Rock episodes
You dont realize how few ppl actually understand my name...and for that you rock

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I've always thought there should be a special kind of credit card that the child support money is put onto and it can only be spent in that way so 100% of the money is tracked and you don't have dad's buying cars and mom's buying plastic boobs.
Agreed 100%.

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Could this same scenario happen with a woman who donated her eggs?
No. Feminists would be up in arms, there would be hell to pay

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Oh well , if things are like that then the couples who can't have children will remain childless.

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