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I apologize, it was pretty late for me, so I didn't go straight into detail. More, or less when you're married, they're the same.
Woman A, may be reluctant to hand out hugs, so if she's one to hug you all the time, means a good sign, while others may hug anyone, which doesn't really help your cause of her liking you (if that's what you want).
If it doesn't make any sense still, I apologize again, just got woken up, but I don't know what
I think I understand what you're saying. No need to apologize, it's all good.
Sounds to me like she was just being overly paranoid. Maybe you just accidentally started speaking to her more often after the breakup, maybe you did purposely, who knows but overall I think she's just being paranoid and making a big deal out of nothing.
Maybe she did what she did cause she likes you and wanted to see if you'd just let her walk away or make a move.
Basically the fact that she acted irrationally or out of the norm proves that she has some type of feelings for you. Tough to say what those feelings actually are but that's something you'll have to work out on your own. People don't get worked up about somebody they don't have feelings for.
Makes sense, I guess. But this is also the girl who would not give me her number after I gave her mine before we decided to go to a resto/bar (just incase one was late or something). She told me that 'not all my friends have my number' and that 'i'm not comfortable giving it out.' Not sure if this has any effect to what you said.
Sounds to me like she likes you and started re-evaluating your relationship with each other after she broke up with her boyfriend. I think she was testing you out to see how you felt and when you didn't come running after her, she found out. If you don't want to take it past freiendship level with her, I would just let it all blow over. If you want to go to another level with her, sit down and talk it out.
Makes sense, I guess. But this is also the girl who would not give me her number after I gave her mine before we decided to go to a resto/bar (just incase one was late or something). She told me that 'not all my friends have my number' and that 'i'm not comfortable giving it out.' Not sure if this has any effect to what you said.
This girl sounds a little too paranoid and complicated
I say get away from her.. The worst you can do is get involved with a girl who leaves you constantly guessing..
If you mean as a friend, then of course I do. But if you mean as in being in love with her, then I don't know. Sometimes I have feelings for her and sometimes I don't.
It seems like she is doing the same thing. I did this before with a guy where I couldn't decide if I liked him or not (although I didn't spaz out on him or anything ), and, honestly, if you can't decide whether you like her or not, you probably don't. And by like, I mean like "like that."
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Tell her you "don't see her like that" and that you "see her more as a sister".
If she likes you, this will drive her crazy and force her to admit she likes you.
If she actually was weirded out by you, this will put her at ease.
Makes sense, I guess. But this is also the girl who would not give me her number after I gave her mine before we decided to go to a resto/bar (just incase one was late or something). She told me that 'not all my friends have my number' and that 'i'm not comfortable giving it out.' Not sure if this has any effect to what you said.
That is really strange. Does this girl seem to be this complicated in all aspects of her life, because if she is then maybe something like the number thing isn't that strange. However if she isn't and it seems completely out of character for her to be like that then it's a weird thing. She sounds like she is very confused.
Makes sense, I guess. But this is also the girl who would not give me her number after I gave her mine before we decided to go to a resto/bar (just incase one was late or something). She told me that 'not all my friends have my number' and that 'i'm not comfortable giving it out.' Not sure if this has any effect to what you said.
Its a game. She can't lay all her cards on the table and she can't come on strong because she still wants the upper edge. She wants to feel like she's playing hard to get and is making you work hard for some things. I would turn and run, thats just me and girls like that.
I would say Im interested in a relationship with you and ask if she feels the same (if you want that). If not then tell her. Either way, be very observant if you get involved with her on a higher level because high maintenance girls are hard to deal with. If you are an emotional guy that needs and defines themself in a girl she might be good for you because she will have no problem being your identity, in fact she prefers it.
I'm 19 as well. She's crazy. Ditch her. No one stops talking to you out of the blue for two months without being crazy. I have a friend that's a girl, I don't think either of us finds the other one attractive so it works, in any other situation, don't even bother.
I don't think she's psychotic by any means - just a normal girl quite honestly.
90% of women/girls are going to **** you over, ESPECIALLY at only 19 years of age. They all lie, hurt your feelings, and stomp on your heart.
I'm telling you, enjoy time with friends for as long as you can. Live life. Don't get involved with some chick. She could be an absolutely wonderful girl, but she will hurt you, it'll end badly, end of story.
Enjoy life, party, love hockey, love friends... You'll be fine.
Trusting a woman, especially at this young of an age is a miserable idea.
Same could be said for guys, ya know
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Makes sense, I guess. But this is also the girl who would not give me her number after I gave her mine before we decided to go to a resto/bar (just incase one was late or something). She told me that 'not all my friends have my number' and that 'i'm not comfortable giving it out.' Not sure if this has any effect to what you said.
1. Does she know who Milan Lucic is?
If no, then dump her.
Seriously..
She is really high maintenence.
Even if you dare attempt the futile "I am friends with her" b.s. she is going to be the type of pal who is unreliable, defensive, and WAY to unpredictable.
Nope. I am with the crowd here. Figure out if you want to knock boots with her, and if you do not, then she serves no purpose (unless her pals are hot and you need an in..then you have to cater to her until you catch the eye of one of her pals.)
You are too young to have this kind of pent up thoughts about another human being.
Like Mr T used to say.. DONT BE A FOO, STAY IN SKOO!
MSN is the worst way to communicate especially with girls because you can never tell what they actually mean, if I were you I would try and get her phone number and talk to her that way instead of this MSN ********.
If you like her and she likes you back then she would have no problem talking to you on the phone, reserve MSN for your buddies, not the girl you like.
Edit: Just read she doesn't want to give you her number, try and get her to go out with you as often as possible even as just friends, but make sure it's just you and her and sooner or later she will fall for you.
Don't worry about her. If she's just a friend... well friends come and go. Since you're 19 you'll discover that greatly through college. Enjoy not worrying about her.
I wouldn't waste the time on her. If she flipped out about that, wait till she sees you smile and laugh with another girl. She'll try to cut your junk off while you sleep.
MSN is the worst way to communicate especially with girls because you can never tell what they actually mean, if I were you I would try and get her phone number and talk to her that way instead of this MSN ********.
If you like her and she likes you back then she would have no problem talking to you on the phone, reserve MSN for your buddies, not the girl you like.
Edit: Just read she doesn't want to give you her number, try and get her to go out with you as often as possible even as just friends, but make sure it's just you and her and sooner or later she will fall for you.
When we were in the same college classes we talked. We exchanged msn early on and usually we planned things over that. I know that msn is not always the best thing, but what can I do when she refused to give me her number a month before that infamous conversation.
I understand it's easy to have fun with this on this board, but is there any serious response besides the whole 'mental case?' Yes, she gets excited at times about different things: we both love movies and talk a lot about them, books and so on. She was afraid, I understand that, but I did not like that she did this via msn instead of in person. Ever since she apologized, we have been having normal conversations which were similar to those before the incident.
I suspect that she was heavily influenced by her friends who convinced her that she was in a vulnerable state and that she shouldn't be that close to any guy at the moment. she took this to heart and is afraid that she is too vulnerable... essentially afraid of her feelings or some such nonsense. Maybe her feelings for you are growing and her friends told her to snap out of it.
If you are interested in her, giver her a lot of space to give her a sense that you aren't some predator and if you aren't interested, emphasize to her that you just enjoy her company and wish for nothing more than a continuation of this friendship with her.
don't worry about whether she likes you are not because that kind of thing will drive you crazy.
), and, honestly, if you can't decide whether you like her or not, you probably don't. And by like, I mean like "like that."
