Lol...well, legally she's my ex-wife. But calling her that is an insult to CJ, she was the very definition of ball and chain.
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Originally Posted by njdlopz
He's just so blind to everything that's not her. It's frustrating because he was a good kid before he started going out with this girl. I miss the real him, but things are so strained between us that even if he does go back to being who he was it may be too late.
I've been there man. And unfortunately, there's not much you can do. When you feel you're in love, and it's not real, you're blind. Things your friends clearly see, you don't, and if you do..you pretend they don't exist. The best thing to hope for is that she cheats on him and breaks his heart..sounds harsh, but that's what you gotta go through sometimes in order to learn.
He's just so blind to everything that's not her. It's frustrating because he was a good kid before he started going out with this girl. I miss the real him, but things are so strained between us that even if he does go back to being who he was it may be too late.
That sucks, man. I had a group of five or six real close friends in high school, and we've each had our girlfriends or whatever, but the wolfpack comes first. Always.
Two of the dudes in particular have strayed from the pack due to girlfriends, but whatever. It's their loss.
The rest of us still date girls, but 90% of the time they're girls that love getting drunk and laughing at stupid **** - just like us - so we all hang out and there's still plenty of time for one on one time with your girl.
At least in my case, the right girl is going to have to love my friends. Just the way it us.
Definitely. This is another reason I know my girl is a keeper. She actually likes my degenerate friends, and insisted I go up to Ithaca to see them this past weekend.
I encourage Tony to go out with his friends all the time..we just live far away and they all have kids and don't have time...but I have no problem with it.
The DVR, a good book and the couch...have fun and if you're drunk you're sleeping on their couch and coming home in the AM!
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Originally Posted by MasterofGrond
Jim, you are my favorite poster.
He's slowly becoming mine right now as well...but that's because there's no hockey to discuss!
I encourage Tony to go out with his friends all the time..we just live far away and they all have kids and don't have time...but I have no problem with it.
The DVR, a good book and the couch...have fun and if you're drunk you're sleeping on their couch and coming home in the AM!
Lol...If my friends weren't so lame..I'd be an alcoholic!!
You have Jim...we've come a long way. We should be very proud of ourselves.
Tony's a lucky man. You gotta really flexible to pat yourself on the back that much.
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