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Lady Advice 16: Females Beware

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08-07-2011, 10:21 AM
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Lady Advice 16: Females Beware

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Went on a date with the girl yesterday. It was fun. It's hard to tell if she's into me sometimes, though! She's very independent, which is good at times, but sometimes not. So I'll be thinking how not into me she is, and then we'll watch a movie, and she'll snuggle up to me and be all adorable again! Confusing.

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Went on a date with the girl yesterday. It was fun. It's hard to tell if she's into me sometimes, though! She's very independent, which is good at times, but sometimes not. So I'll be thinking how not into me she is, and then we'll watch a movie, and she'll snuggle up to me and be all adorable again! Confusing.
Yeah I'm a bit of a similar situation too, oh well. Seeing her again next weekend so we'll see what happens.

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Went on a date with the girl yesterday. It was fun. It's hard to tell if she's into me sometimes, though! She's very independent, which is good at times, but sometimes not. So I'll be thinking how not into me she is, and then we'll watch a movie, and she'll snuggle up to me and be all adorable again! Confusing.
How many dates have you been on? Make a move dude. Even though she may like you, it's only a matter of time before she gets bored, or worse, thinks you're not really into her.

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How many dates have you been on? Make a move dude. Even though she may like you, it's only a matter of time before she gets bored, or worse, thinks you're not really into her.
Oh, she knows I like her, and she likes me, too. We're just not really sure what we are, exactly. We're going to be exclusively dating, but we also agreed we're not exactly in a relationship, yet. I'm giving her space, but also making it clear I like her a lot, and pushing to see her. This situation will either turn out well, or I'll get burned pretty bad.

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Yeah I'm a bit of a similar situation too, oh well. Seeing her again next weekend so we'll see what happens.
How far along are you? Are you going to make a move?

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How far along are you? Are you going to make a move?
Its just going to be our 2nd date coming up. And yeah I'm planning on making a move, was too busy trying to tell how much she was into me the first date but then at the end of the night she was trying to figure out when we would get together next before I even had a chance to ask her. But since then we been messaging each other and she's just been sending short answers etc.

I'm just trying not to overthink anything because I'm really into this girl. Like we've only been out once but even right after I couldn't wait to see her again. Its also abit weird for me because its really my first time going after the girl instead of it being the other way around. In high school I didn't give a **** and I guess that attracted them because I had a few gf's only because they pursued me, otherwise I would have just stayed happily single. Its been about 2 years since then and I just haven't met anyone that I didn't get annoyed with after the first date or whatever so its hard to not get too eager I guess.

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Where is the catchy title? Single and ready to mingle would be a good one.

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Where is the catchy title? Single and ready to mingle would be a good one.
Yeah,no.

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Went on a date with the girl yesterday. It was fun. It's hard to tell if she's into me sometimes, though! She's very independent, which is good at times, but sometimes not. So I'll be thinking how not into me she is, and then we'll watch a movie, and she'll snuggle up to me and be all adorable again! Confusing.
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Yeah I'm a bit of a similar situation too, oh well. Seeing her again next weekend so we'll see what happens.
beware of the friend zone. You guys need to make a move. While they are snuggling rub their thighs or go for a kiss or something.

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Oh, she knows I like her, and she likes me, too. We're just not really sure what we are, exactly. We're going to be exclusively dating, but we also agreed we're not exactly in a relationship, yet. I'm giving her space, but also making it clear I like her a lot, and pushing to see her. This situation will either turn out well, or I'll get burned pretty bad.
live up to your avatar dude.

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Become gay and adopt children?

You mean become Barney not real life NPH

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beware of the friend zone. You guys need to make a move. While they are snuggling rub their thighs or go for a kiss or something.
Solid advice. Some girls are very impatient when it comes to getting clear signals. Try to make your intentions clear, even if you're not completely sure what they are yet.

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Solid advice. Some girls are very impatient when it comes to getting clear signals. Try to make your intentions clear, even if you're not completely sure what they are yet.
There is actually no penalty for pressing...well okay, if you take it too far that might be ****, I'm more speaking in the vein of going for the kiss early instead of waiting until the end or 'not wanting to rush things'.

I haven't had a first date that didn't feature at least kiss in so long that I can't even remember if it ever even happened. A woman will forgive a man who goes for it; she'll never forgive a man who she gives a chance that he doesn't take.

Timbo, if you don't do something soon you'll find yourself in the friend zone.

You may think she's super into you now, but remember that women, especially attractive women, tend to have a ton of options and a ton of guys approaching them near constantly. If she's attractive she can meet someone she likes better tomorrow for all you know.

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The title of all these threads should be "no means yes"

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Solid advice. Some girls are very impatient when it comes to getting clear signals. Try to make your intentions clear, even if you're not completely sure what they are yet.
Yep, thats the plan for this weekend.

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The title of all these threads should be "no means yes"
forgot the second part

"yes means anal"

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Oh, she knows I like her, and she likes me, too. We're just not really sure what we are, exactly. We're going to be exclusively dating, but we also agreed we're not exactly in a relationship, yet. I'm giving her space, but also making it clear I like her a lot, and pushing to see her. This situation will either turn out well, or I'll get burned pretty bad.
when in doubt, whip it out.

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